| Geek Christmas |
[Oct. 31st, 2007|08:53 am] |
Because 31 OCT = 25 DEC.
And 34 years ago tonight my then roommate and I were invited to dinner here with a truly vile academic, one who sought (vainly, I am glad to note) to advance her career by destroying that of the woman I subsequently married, whose apartment this was. It was some five years later I moved in.
During our time in the neighborhood the All State Cafe was our refuge. Until last Tuesday into early, very early Wednesday. The auction was Monday, and Srsti, the bar's mascot since long before she was born, scored a couple of tables and some chairs, which we (mostly she) managed to get through the book-infested hallway and into the kitchen yesterday.
And now the place feels a little more like home. Though I don't think we will be organized to feed the hungry ghosts. Indeed, I should like to take myself off to Djinn night at Je'Bon on St. Marks Place, without benefit of costume, though I might descend to the basement and dig up a mask.
Unless the Professor needs me at home for moral support. Today will be a landmark in her fight for the promotion she earned many years ago, but was denied, because she is neither white nor black in a Hispanic college where color is prized, and because she is openly heterosexual and, despite the dot of lipstick on her forehead, a practicing Catholic, though lately a rather Byzantine one. |
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I believe diversity is a joy to Godde, and kindness the profoundest form of sanity.
May she find vindication and fairness, may she even more importantly *know* vindication in everything she is, in her dignity, and her inner strength.
I don't know your details but your post was evocative and moving, and I do hope this day is good, and kindness prevails against the unkindness of the past.
That is one primary reason I took early retirement. The Roman church in these parts no longer values, heterosexual, nonLatino, nonblack anybody, especially women. I see the same dynamic in academia here and am so sorry your Professor has experienced this. We are dumbing ourselves down when the only qualifications are color and sexual orientation and I see the results in the semiliterate graduates of our secondary and state schools here. I am praying she will finally win. May God bless you both and continue to give you patience, tolerance, endurance and more than just survival, some joy and justice.
![[User Picture]](http://l-userpic.livejournal.com/55670236/615939) | From: arisbe 2007-10-31 02:24 pm (UTC)
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Thank you.
I see I wasn't very clear about the color issue. Her college caters to a Latino community which is very conscious of race, and the teaching staff includes the sort of Cuban who cheered Castro on chiefly because Battista was of partially African descent. Indeed the term Indio is used to deny any African admixture, and no doubt it is embarassing to have folks from India around. And some academics of Jewish descent harbor bitter feelings against people of color in general dating back to the '60s and '70s, and such feelings are often mixed up with the sort of racial pride that passes for religion in those who don't believe in God.
From: (Anonymous) 2007-10-31 03:15 pm (UTC)
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No. I think I got it. The dynamics are a little bit different but same root. The Latinos in our city hate the blacks, vice versa. In the parish I worked in, the blacks there wanted to help the Latinos integrate, share their experience with this and how to do it but the Latinos wanted none of it. Well, I could say more but there are many problems. Now, the diocese's preference is to hire what they consider to be minorities but the only two minorities considered now are AfAm and Latino. Academia here is now prejuidiced toward Asian and Caucasian and leans in favor of AfAm and to a lesser degree, Latino. It's ugly prejuidice and shifts around from group to group. I wonder if it will ever stop?
I'm just sick about the All State and have been reading this series with great interest and some catharsis. Happy to hear you scored some chairs.
Best of all, two of the tables!
Not only "nice" furniture but good furniture. Best of luck to the lovely + talented Maya today and hope to get to see you guys sometime again in life.
gosh sorry to hear of end of allstate cafe, any other good bars near your place?
Still looking. But not too hard.
still holding to diet? I have hardly been drinking myself these days
![[User Picture]](http://l-userpic.livejournal.com/55670236/615939) | From: arisbe 2007-11-01 05:13 am (UTC)
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I permit myself rare exceptions. Other than that I'm in it for the long haul. | |
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